And the same goes for men/male identity, too. How do you operate in post-post-modernity?
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Read Jessica’s post for her (and Dacia’s) opinions on the issues facing feminism as a whole nowadays.
My personal take on it is that feminism as an identifying label is obsolete and archaic. But so are so many other labels: feminist; misogynist; leftist; rightist; centrist; and so on and so forth.
I think we’re in an age nowadays where the individual is the label, not the group or belief to which you identify yourself. People are complex, in so many different ways, and to use a label of any kind is to fail to realise this.
I’m not saying that we’re more complex nowadays than we were in the past. Not as individuals, no. But society is more complex. It’s less rigid, less stratified, less divided by the labels which used to define us.
Take race as an example. That simple facet of an individual caused so many problems in society, including dividing it and treating people of different colour in different ways, both good and bad. But look at the issue of race today: it’s not perfect by any means, but people are a lot more accepting of race, and are even ignore it in many walks of life.
Race has become much less of a defining feature of a person, and nowadays is merely one part of an individual’s make-up. Individuals choose whether to let it define them, or how important they make it in their lives. And society as a whole regards race as much less important.
We can’t ignore what these labels have done for society, be it building walls or knocking them down. But in modern western societies, they are no longer relevant. People don’t identify with “society” any more, and the sense of community has also been lost.
Some bemoan this, usually those who liked the status quo that labels gave to society. Others thrive in this newfound, wider anomie that allows us to be individuals without these norms and labels to govern what we can and can’t do.
We don’t need a “male identity” to love or loathe; to live by or refute. We just live. That’s it.
I don’t want to be identified as “just another guy”, as a misogynist or a feminist. I’d rather be listened to as an individual, as me, as Rob.
Because that’s who I am, and that’s who everyone else is too.